When You Got It All Wong

My surname, Wong, is the one to which I was born. My mother had married a man who had Chinese in his lineage, and when their marriage dissolved, she kept his name.



As an American Aboriginal woman, I have received lots of interesting reactions whenever someone hears my last name. Persons from the Asian community are more shocked than anything as mixing with (Negro) blood is a no-no in their eyes.

Anyhoo...

I've always liked my surname. Actually, my full name is quite melodic, and I cannot even imagine not being known as a Wong.

With that said, my 40s have turned out to be the decade where I have learned the most about myself.  I have really come to know who I am as this physical form, and where my heart truly lies (where I am meant to be).

Through my love for the esoteric, metaphysical, and occult, I have also learned a lot about the frequency of words and the power they contain.

My surname is no exception.

W-O-N-G


W (5)+O (6)+N (5)+G (7)=23=2+3=5

5... the number of freedom and diversity.


You have no idea how much that rings true for all that I have experienced as "Adonya Wong".

My journey, so far, has been one of A LOT of change and diversity.

I've experienced relationships dissolving.

Lots of shifting.

I've experienced other versions of myself, from all walks of life, expressing us in the most colorful ways.

Lots of change, which is the only thing constant in life.

Numerologist, Christine DeLorey, has this to say about the vibration of The 5 Family:
... are learning about freedom, new experience, adventure, variety, change, presence, sexuality, and the physical body.

Having to deal with sudden and sometimes traumatic situations enables them to accept that, over time, people, places, and circumstances really do shift, change, adapt and evolve.

This family’s stress comes from unaddressed fear, lack of freedom, oppressive relationships, being unfairly judged, overindulgence, and prolonged boredom.

Me in a nutshell:


I do bore easily. Partly because I know there is SO much in this realm and beyond it that I want to experience.

I have been known to overeat; usually as a means to self-soothe/feel safe. At one point, I was a big drinker, often consuming large quantities of alcohol all by myself.

I get pretty fearful. Oft times over shit that never manifests.

And I have experienced my share of trauma:

  • sexual abuse

  • Caring for my dying mother and being the one who "called" her passing

  • Being abandoned and rejected by my biological father when I was an infant

  • More family members transitioning

  • Single motherhood


As a mom to a child living with an Autism Spectrum Disorder diagnosis, there can be moments of stress. I am, however, thankful they are few and far between one another.

Lastly, my intense desire to live free consumes me, and it sometimes taxes me emotionally.  I find that I have to jump of the hamster wheel in order to keep it at bay... more times than not

Know that this desire has nothing to do with being a parent.  I have been blessed... because my son is AWESOME!  I just want to live on a large private island, in the middle of nowhere, living sustainably, fully independent where my existence would do no harm to the planet.  Oh, and I'd build a fully functioning USS Enterprise and travel the cosmos with my Prince and our family of Androids!  BOOM!

So... what does your family name say about you?


[I intentionally published this post at 5:55am to enhance its energy and also because I feel the strong winds of change blowing my way again. PLUS, January 21, 2017 adds up to 5. Okay, that part was totally unintentional.  Anyhoo, 1+2+1+2+0+1+7=14=1+4=5.  I'm Wong like that!  Double BOOM! :D ]