Revisiting... One WILD Ride!
I had the pleasure of "visiting" several blogs, forums, and organizational sites to not only promote my new book, In My Mind, but also to discuss life with autism.
Hosts, from all over, took the virtual book tour as an opportunity to "interview" me and learn more about me.
Some days were more active, by way of reader participation, but all in all, the whole experience was one of great learning and fun.
I cannot thank each host enough for their hospitality and support. Here's a little something for you!
It Doesn’t Seem Enough
I want to tell you "Thank you,"
But it doesn’t seem enough.
Words don’t seem sufficient--
"Blah, blah" and all that stuff.
Please know I have deep feelings
About your generous act.
I really appreciate you;
You’re special, and that’s a fact!
By Joanna Fuchs
I can't wait to do this again, but I promise one thing... it won't be too soon! {wink}
For those of you who didn't have the opportunity to participate in my lil tour, I've included the text, comments and all, for your reading pleasure! There were a lot of graphics used in each post, but they have been omitted from this one. You are welcome to visit each tour stop to check out everyone's "display"!
Enjoy!
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In My Mind Blog Tour... Revisited!
DAY 1: Autism Family Adventures
First Virtual Stop For In My Mind Tour
Welcome to the first stop of the Virtual Book Tour, 'Globe Trottin' for Autism In My Mind : The World Through the Eyes of Autism by Adonya Wong. Adonya's tour runs from January 19 to January 29.
January 6, 2009 marked the world-wide release of her children's book, In My Mind: The World Through the Eyes of Autism. This is available as an eBook and with the purchase of the book customers receive an audio version in Adonya's own voice. Check out the podcast Adonya did with Autism Hangout.
Adonya's son is named Nicholas, same as my older son. Besides both being on the autism spectrum, they share other similarities as both are not fond of dogs, schooled at home, have artistic talents in drawing, plus received their autism diagnoses from School Psychologists before their fourth birthdays.
In My Mind is how Adonya perceives Nicholas's thoughts on the world around him and based on his actions how the world views him. In My Mind is also a tool for him someday to learn more about himself and autism. I agree about utilizing books to help kids gain insights into their own diagnosis. We had numerous books to guide my son Nicholas into autism awareness. Now he is at the point where he will offer opinions on whether a child at autism daycamp is low, medium or high functioning.
I recall many years ago reading that yellow is a common favorite color of kids on the autism spectrum. I noticed on the pages of In My Mind that yellow stood out on his shirt, scarf, duck and shower curtain. The illustrator really captured the likeness of her son Nicholas within the pages of In My Mind, as noted in this Tulsa article.
In My Mind : The World Through the Eyes of Autism is a book for kids of all ages to see what makes a child happy and how those thoughts are brought to life through a Mother's vision. The dreams, fantasies and motions of one child on the autism spectrum will open the eyes and spark conversation among readers.
This is a great opportunity to start discussions on the autism spectrum within a classroom of students, at a support group with family members and parents. It is also appropriate for one on one with a therapist to initiate a dialogue on the illustrations within In My Mind where a child can share what their hopes and dreams are in the future.
My son Nicholas viewed the fifteen page ebook with me and shared his impression:
"It shows nice things that the boy is doing when really all he is doing is nothing but seemingly happy just the same." His favorite pages were nine - having fun on a roller coaster with animals and a cowboy along with page twelve inside the bathtub with the snorkel and his hand up in the air waving.
One lucky reader will win a gift basket containing an autographed copy of In My Mind, a copy of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wish You Knew, packages of Enjoy Life™ and Namaste Foods™ goodies, and an eco-friendly cleaning starter kit (Whole Foods® 365™ brand), and (1) $50 Amazon.com gift card!! This prize is valued at $200. The winner will be announced 4 days after the tour ends (Adonya will revisit each blog to retrieve names).
**Simply comment about your relationship with autism, what you are doing to raise awareness, and how In My Mind has touched your life. Be sure to visit all of her stops to qualify for this amazing prize!**
Excerpt:
In My Mind, I see many colors, bright like a rainbow, shooting about like comets in the night sky. [turn page] What you see is a child staring into nothing.
Monday, Jan 19 you are here - please comment
Tuesday, Jan 20 Doctorious.org
Wednesday, Jan 21 The Bon Bon Gazette
Thursday, Jan 22 The Queen’s Pen
Friday, Jan 23 Rawtism
Saturday, Jan 24 My Autism Insights
Sunday, Jan 25 Rainbow Project DFW
Monday, Jan 26 Tanner’s Dad’s Blog
Tuesday, Jan 27 Imperfect Clarity
Wednesday, Jan 28 Autism Learning Felt
Thursday, Jan 29 Healing Through The Eyes of Autism
To learn about her book, In My Mind, and living with autism, please visit her at Through the Eyes of Autism website and Blog!
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism Foundation).
Adonya's book is available at Amazon and a bookstore near you!
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
I asked author, Adonya Wong, the following two questions. Her responses are in bold:
1. How would you describe your Nicholas in a few words - what sums him up?
What an excellent question. Trains are currently Nicholas's passion. He has an old timey electric train set, a train calendar (that he somehow managed to instantly locate in a store of hundreds of other themes), a train magazine... he's borderline obssessed. ;) So, summing him up is challenging, but I'll do my best. If he continues down this path, his claim to fame may be as the designer of a zero emissions locomotive.
2. His hands are always outstretched or doing something within the pages of In My Mind, except for the coloring page - is this based on your son doing the same movements?
Yes. Nicholas can often be observed flailing his arms about. It's almost as if he's conducting some music or directing a scene because the flailing is usually coordinated with a song he may be listening to or something he's watching. In my observations, I've learned that his flailing is like his own language because if you pay close attention, you can see when he's "drawing" something in the air or coordinating his hands in such a way that they form letters. It isn't ASL because we never took classes for that, but it sometimes looks like it is.
Please remember to ask your questions in the comments when sharing about your autism connection. Good luck in winning the prize. I look forward to following along the tour and seeing the comments.
Posted by autismfamily at 11:44 AM
Labels: adonya wong, autism childrens book, blog tour, in my mind
Michelle said...
Hi Bonnie!
I just wanted to thank you for visiting my blog.
I've been reading through your blog... there's so much helpful information here! I have two good friends with Autistic children, I'm going to send them here!
Also, I was the team captain for our company team for the San Diego Walk for Autism, last year we raised a little over $1,000 - every little bit helps!!
Thanks for all you do,
Michelle
http://givingtree2009.blogspot.com/
Tracy(bookroomreviews) said...
Adonya,
I love your comment about your son using his hands to draw in the air. Just lovely. My son is five and was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism at age four also. I just started reviewing books on Autism for my blog to raise awareness and participating in groups. I plan on doing more. Your book looks darling. Is it available as a hard copy? Please enter me in the fantastic giveaway. Great Review Bonnie!
Tracy
bookroomreviews@hotmail.com
Tanya @ Teenautism said...
Wonderful review, Bonnie! This looks like an enjoyable, helpful book.
My Three Sons said...
Hello, just wanted to stop in and say hello. My two year old has Sensory Processing Disorder and he will be tested in March for Autism. I have my doubts after doing a lot of research but we will see.
Thanks for stopping by my blog and feel free to say hello every once in a while.
Dadof6Autistickids said...
Hi Bonnie and Adonya,
Our Ammon (5) is our 'conductor'. He generally does this when watching Teletubbies or watching a door close. And he enjoys it SO much. I hope your book tour goes well and that you are able to touch the world inside and outside of Autism.
DAY 2: Doctorious
January 20, 2009
As a parent to a child with autism, Adonya Wong understands the unique challenges and rewards that responsibility entails. As an author, Adonya hopes to share that experience with others affected by autism and those wanting to learn more about it.
Her first book, In My Mind: The World Through The Eyes of Autism, creatively explores the inner world of an autistic child through the form of a children’s picture book.
From exciting adventures to silly games and conversations with a range of imaginary friends, the main character of the story — who is inspired by Adonya’s son, Nicholas — brings readers into his world to demonstrate how a child with autism sees the world, and, in turn, how the world often sees a child with autism.
A video trailer of the book follows:
Adonya’s motivation for writing her book stemmed from the realization that there was a scarcity of literature directed to and written for autistic children and their families.
In My Mind was written to help raise awareness about autism, and she hopes that the reader will gain a deeper sense of compassion and tolerance for those “different” than themselves.
To help promote her book, Adonya has launched a ”Globe Trottin’ for Autism” vrtual book tour starting on January 19 and concluding on January 29, 2009.
During the tour, 11 different blogs will promote In My Mind and feature her answers to questions about life with autism, writing, the publishing process, and discussing future projects. Along with insightful interviews, you can read reviews of In My Mind and listen to an audio interview by Autism Hangout.
I came to know Adonya during the December 16, 2008 Autism Twitter Day. As a result, I was invited to participate in this unique marketing initiative. This blog entry represents day 2 of the 11 scheduled stops.
As part of my participation in this unique event, I had an opportunity to ask Adonya some questions. I asked her about issues relevant to the themes of this blog: social media, education and autism (an issue of great personal significance to me).
Below are my questions and her answers — please feel free to post any questions you might have for Adonya in the comments section of this blog:
1. Tell me more about your son, Nicholas: what does he like to do, what are his strengths, what are his dreams? In what ways is Nicholas an inspiration and teacher to you?
Nicholas is an avid reader and quite the talented artist. We go through about 6 Doodle Pros a year, so, hopefully, Fisher Price will see this post and send me vouchers once a month or quarter. He also enjoys the computer to the point where, some nights, he gets a little teary eyed when told to shut it down.
Early last year, I stumbled upon a nifty little application, Zac Browser, and it has really opened up the Internet for him in ways I couldn’t have imagined. The creator, Jon LeSieur, has a grandson on the spectrum, and he developed this application to simplify his web experience, thereby, making it more enjoyable for him. I’m grateful he decided to share it with the world. I highly recommend it!
I wish I knew what Nicholas’s dreams were. He doesn’t always speak conversationally and his cognition of such a complex question is a bit low. Whatever his dreams may be, I’m sure they’re grand.
I credit Nicholas for being my grounding source. I feel that his presence in my life has made me more patient, tolerant and empathetic of others. With every new day, I learn to just “be” and go with the flow.
He often tells me, “It’s okay, Mom” as he wraps his arms around me, and it is in these moments that I truly know that everything is going to be okay.
2. In what ways do you think you book can be used to educate and inform people not affected or touched by autism about what it is like to live with a diagnosis?
I initially didn’t write the book to educate folks since being a writer wasn’t even anything I was contemplating at that time in my life. I didn’t even realize I had a story in me until I finished typing out the words to In My Mind. The book, literally, came to me in a flash. Some would say it was Divine Intervention!
As for me? Couldn’t really say, but apparently, I am supposed to share my life’s experiences which is why I’m here today, talking about my first published work.
The book has been read by several people not “living” with autism and based on their responses, I can say that my book is shedding a different kind of light on the mind’s of those looking into our world. In My Mind is a perception-based book. People are often too quick to judge what they see without looking for the deeper/hidden meaning behind someone’s actions.
It is my wish that my book will get folks to stop the judgments and be more accepting of those perceived as being “different” than themselves.
3. What role did social media play in the production and/or promotion of your book: did you use any specific websites/services to develop ideas for your book and which websites/services are you using to market your book?
Social Media has played a huge part in promoting my book — it seems to be the current trend in getting people to notice you or your accomplishments. Shortly after I received word that my book would be published, I put up a presence on MySpace and Facebook.
I have since added several Ning networks (most of them dealing with either writing/published authors and autism) to that list as well as Twitter (which is how I met you, my friend).
I also have a website that I put up shortly before the book’s pre-release.
4. For the aspiring published authors out there (myself included), describe the process by which you found and were signed by your publisher. Also explain what the writing and production process was like — in what ways was the Internet part of that process?
Finding a publisher was easy. Although, I didn’t choose the self-publishing route, I did get signed on by a Print-On-Demand publisher. Getting published the traditional way meaning going with a well-established and widely recognized (by way of their name) publisher requires money (finding a literary agent) and, oftentimes, years of walking the grounds.
My publisher has lowered the percentage of manuscripts they choose for publication from 4 to 3.5%. My experience with them, so far, has been positive.
My suggestion to an aspiring author is to get your story on paper. Then join groups like Critique Circle and get others to mull over your work. Now, this is not something for the faint at heart. If you’re someone who doesn’t like criticism in any form, I suggest you choose another path.
Anyhoo, some of the members of Critique Circle are editors, and I’ve read of a few people getting signed because of their relationship with these folks via this platform.
I didn’t use the internet to help me with my book as I am living with someone on the spectrum. I had my everday experiences to fuel my writing. Children’s fiction is my genre of choice, and I don’t anticipate having to do any “outside” research for any of my work.
I recently purchased a book by successful self-published author John Kremer titled 1001 Ways to Market Your Books. I am also a member of his Ning network, Book Marketing.
5. Will the book have any kind of online companion presence, perhaps a resource site for parents and other interested individuals?
My website is a work in progress. However, I do offer links to sites that have been helpful to me over the years. I will be updating it soon with writing/publishing information. But I anticipate that happening after my site goes through a redesign. I will, however, be adding worksheets for children that I hope will stimulate their imagination and encourage them to follow their dreams.
Special thanks to Adonya for writing her beautiful book and including this blog in her Virtual Book Tour! If you have questions of your own about In My Mind, please leave them in the comments section of this blog, below.
Also be sure to visit the next stop on the Virtual Book Tour, The Bon Bon Gazette, where Adonya will answer additional questions. While you’re there be sure to place your daily entry for her giveaway. To enter, simply comment about your relationship with autism, what you are doing to raise awareness, and how In My Mind has touched your life. Be sure to visit all of her stops to qualify for this amazing prize!
One lucky reader will win a gift basket containing an autographed copy of In My Mind, a copy of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wish You Knew, packages of Enjoy Life™ and Namaste Foods™ goodies, an eco-friendly cleaning starter kit (Whole Foods® 365™ brand), and (1) $50 Amazon.com gift card!! This prize is valued at $200!!!
To learn more about In My Mind and what it’s like to live with autism, visit Adonya’s website or her blog. In My Mind is available online at Amazon.com, Books-A-Million.com, Borders.com, Target.com, Tate Publishing and coming soon to a bookstore near you! Note that a portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Tulsa Autism Foundation.
You might also want to visit the other stops on the Virtual Book Tour:
- Monday, January 19: Bonnie Sayers, Autism Family Adventures
- Tuesday, January 20: (Here)
- Wednesday, January 21: MaryTara Wurmser, The Bon Bon Gazette
- Thursday, January 22: Kartina Shanks, The Queen’s Pen
- Friday, January 23: Sunshine Boatright, Raw Life
- Saturday, January 24: Andrea S., My Autism Insights
- Sunday, January 25: Lori Guthrie, Rainbow Project DFW
- Monday, January 26: Tim Welsh, Tanner’s Dad’s Blog
- Tuesday, January 27: Kari Wolfe, Imperfect Clarity
- Wednesday, January 28: Tammy Lessick, Autism Learning Felt
- Thursday, January 29: Adonya Wong, Healing… Through the Eyes of Autism
So, what’s in your mind about autism now?
DAY 3: The Bon Bon Gazette
In My Mind Virtual Book Tour: Journey Into the Mind of a Child with Autism
In My Mind Virtual Book Tour
Join Adonya Wong as she trots around the globe for autism, visiting various websites and blogs during her first-ever virtual book tour! She will be sharing thoughts about life with autism, writing, the publishing process, and discussing future projects. Along with insightful interviews, you can read reviews of In My Mind and listen to an audio interview by Autism Hangout.
Welcome to the 3rd stop of the In My Mind Virtual Book Tour. If you are a reader of The Bon Bon Gazette you probably already know that I am a huge fan of Adonya Wong and her book, In My Mind: The World Through the Eyes of Autism. Take A look at "In My Mind" to see what happened when I received my autographed copy from Adonya or check out My Epinions.com Review.
My Thoughts:
"Appropriate for children and adults a like. In My Mind... is not 'just another children's book' nor is it 'yet another book about autism'. I believe this book absolutely holds a place both in the autism and special-ed classrooms and on the shelves of every school library." - MT, The Bon Bon Gazette
There's only so many ways for me to say it, I love this book!
As a mother of a child with autism, I immediately felt a bond with the author Adonya Wong when we "met" through reading each other's blogs and then getting to know each other more on twitter. When I learned about the book, I was curious to how she would portrayAutism as envisioned through her son's eyes. The author, Adonya Wong has a son Nicholas who is a happy, healthy, 7 year old boy - close in age to my son Alex (who just turned 8 last month). The child in her book In My Mind (modeled after her son) is shown happy - much like my own son who always seems to have a great smile on his face. This smile that is such a source of joy and strength - that helps get through the bumps in the road of our Autism journey. In a recent news article, she describes her son: affectionate, funny, and artistic. Indeed! This could easily be describing my own Alex. Yes, the boys both have Autism - but there is so much more to them than that. I'm reminded of an old button/bumper sticker saying "See the person, not the disorder". Adonya's book, In My Mind, sheds a much appreciated positive light on Autism.
As part of the Virtual Book Tour, I got to ask Adonya Wong a few questions about In My Mind:
Question 1: How long did it take you to write In My Mind?
Adonya Wong: 5 minutes! I'm serious, it only took 5 minutes. One minute, I wasn't even thinking about writing children's stories; the next minute, I've typed one out. I couldn't believe it. Some would call it Divine Intervention. I don't know what to call it myself, all I know is I was minding my own business when the story "came to me".
Question 2: Did your son give you any input on the text or illustrations?
Adonya Wong: No. Nicholas doesn't communicate with me like that. If I were to ask for his input, he would have difficulty processing what it is I am asking. As for the illustrations? Well, my publisher provided all that for me. I only requested that the character be modeled after my son, that was it. I was just very fortunate to have an illustrator who saw what was going on in my mind without a lot of input from me.
Because I am a rule breaker, I asked her a few other questions about how her book has been received by family and friends. Adonya's response was not surprising
"My friends, whom I consider my family, have given me very positive
feedback."
I also wanted to know if any more books were in the works and learned that Adonya has already written several others, including 12 of which that were written the same week as In My Mind.
"However, I don't spend my days stressing about what to write. I actually wait for the words to come to me in their own time".
Lastly, I inquired if she had thought about marketing the book for use in schools curriculum and/or to libraries.
"I have been seriously, seriously considering just that. My husband is
a professor, so I'd have a lot of assistance in compiling the information into a
teaching format. Additionally, I will be marketing IMM as a companion for
the Libraries and Autism program I want implemented in Oklahoma."
Thanks, Adonya, for stopping by.
Adonya's next stop on the Virtual Book Tour will be Rawtism.com on Friday January 23rd. Be sure to stop by to learn more about her and to place your daily entry for her awesome giveaway...
"One lucky reader will win a beautiful gift basket containing an autographed copy of her book, a copy of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew, packages of Enjoy Life™ and Namaste Foods™ goodies, an eco-friendly cleaning starter kit (Whole Foods® 365™ brand), and (1) $50 Amazon.com gift card!! This prize is valued at $200!!!"
How to Enter: **Simply comment about your relationship with autism, what you are doing to raise awareness, and how In My Mind has touched your life. Be sure to visit all of her stops for more chances to qualify for this amazing prize!**
To learn more about Adonya Wong's book In My Mind and living with autism, please visit her website and blog
Adonya's book is available at Amazon.com
Pick up your own copy here:
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism Foundation)
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8 comments:
Tammy said...
I love this book. I have had people ask me how to explain Autism to a classroom of young children. For young children, I think the focus should be explaining the child, not the disorder. This book does that. Thanks.
throughtheeyesofautism said...
Hi Tammy!
Thank you for the kind words.
I have to agree with you when it comes to "explaining autism" to our young. I believe when you make things complicated, they become even more confused.
IMO... keeping things light and even adventurous helps them better understand something as mysterious as autism.
To be honest with you, I don't think I could "explain the disorder"... even now. ;)
Thanks for stopping by! Looking forward to your tour stop next Wednesday! :D
Adonya
Adonya Wong
Author | Autism Blogger | Twitterer
Nate, Carrie & Malachi Chance said...
Although I havne't experienced the book yet... it absolutely sounds wonderful. I work for Head Start preschool programs and we are seeing more and more children with the AI diagnosis and they are all just as different as can be. Something like this wouild be helpful for our classrooms as a resource for both the staff who may not understand as well as the chidren.
On a personal note my nephew, although no diagnosis has come, I personally believe is on the spectrum. Both his sister and his father have no real clue in how to deal with some of the various behaviors he displays (honestly I don't think his mom really knows either... but that's another story.)
It's great to have more adult/child friendly resources like this book. It's going on my list of must haves.
As a mom of a son on the spectrum, simply sharing that fact with others is educating a lot of people. You see, my little guy is a talker, and it isn't always readily apparent to others that there's something diffent in the way he experiences, senses or reacts to the world. The amount of dingbat responses -- not meant to be ignorant-sounding, just uninformed always astounds me. I borrow the phrase "if you've a child with autism, you've only seen one aspect of a many-sided diagnosis. I've not yet read this book, but it would be very helpful in conveying how my son is alike, and different, from his peers.
throughtheeyesofautism said...
Hi Carrie.
Thanks for stopping by.
I am currently working on a teaching program where the book can be used for just that.
The early days of autism are confusing, at best. Perhaps, my book will be able to shed some light on things for your brother/sister. Perhaps when he/she reads it, he/she just might see his/her son within the pages.
Or perhaps not.
I hope you enjoy your copy, and thanks again for stopping by.
Adonya
Adonya Wong
Author | Autism Blogger | Twitterer
throughtheeyesofautism said...
Hey there, Lisa.
Sorry my comment to Carrie came before I saw yours show up! Talk about dingbat! ;)
I have met other parents who assume that my life is exactly like theirs for the simple fact that we have children with autism.
Autism is a multi-faceted "dis-order", and like snowflakes, every person is uniquely different.
Sure, there are similarities, but physiologically, everyone functions at different levels.
I often get a kick whenever I mention that my son has autism, and I receive this response... "Really! I couldn't tell. He doesn't look like he has it."
I know they mean well, but who says that to someone?
Anyhoo, I relish at any opportunity to "school someone" {can also be read as put someone in their place) especially if they've made an inappropriate comment or looked at us sideways.
Or educating those whose hearts are in the right place, but their choice of words are misplaced.
I welcome your thoughts on the book when you get it. :)
Thanks for stopping by!
Adonya
Adonya Wong
Author | Autism Blogger | Twitterer
Tanya @ Teenautism said...
MT, this is such an informative review! I agree that this book should be in school libraries and classrooms.
Jaimie said...
Hello :)
I am a moderate-intensive special education student teacher. In past education placements and camps, I have had a lot of exposure to Autism. I have worked with ABA/Discrete trial training and seemingly have met just about every different end of the spectrum. In My Mind seems like an absolutely wonderful book to help simplify and explain the complex world of Autism.
I would love to read the "10 things..." book. I think it will be an invaluable resource to me as a teacher.
What am I doing to raise awareness? For starters, I always use person first language. I never say "the Autistic boy", I say "the cute little boy with the red hair who has Autism." or something like that! I also push others to see that children with Autism all deserve the same chances that we do to lead happy, fulfilling lives.
DAY 4: The Queen’s Pen
Adonya Wong: Global Autism Stop
Welcome to Adonya Wong’s fourth home visit the Virtual Book Tour, ‘Globe Trottin’ for Autism In My Mind : The World Through the Eyes of Autism by Adonya Wong running from January 19-January 29. Her book was released on January 6th and will open up many doors for Autism Awareness and helping others gain a further understanding for the way our Autie Angels view the world! She is the loving, caring mother of an Autistic boy by the name of Nicholas and wanted the share her experience with the world! Below you will find my 10 question interview on Autism with Adonya Wong.
Please feel free to comment! Click below to read the interview, be informed and enjoy…
1. Autistic children are often referred to as unique, creative, focused and sometimes even ingenious. Describe some of the beauties you have experienced in parenting Nicholas.
Like any individual, children with autism are just as unique and creative and focused and, even, ingenious. My son is no exception. He loves to draw, but he would not be considered a savant. I can’t show him a picture of Rome, ask him to commit it to memory, then recall it in its entirety and draw it on his Doodle Pro. However, he draws pretty well for a 7 year old, and this talent is amplified if he is passionate about the subject. Nicholas’s current passion is trains, and his attention to detail is quite remarkable.
2. Were there any particular challenges you had to face when publishing your book which you feel you may not have encountered if your book was of a more popular genre such as fiction?
To be honest with you, I had zero expectations when it came to even receiving a contract. During the week In My Mind was written, I wrote 12 additional stories. All of them were submitted to the same publisher at the same time, and I was actually quite surprised that In Mind Mind was selected because I didn’t think they would find the topic interesting. Also, Tate Publishing is not a traditional publisher, even though they only accepted 3.5% of the manuscripts submitted to them in 2007. I really couldn’t say whether or not I would have faced rejection or challenges had I gone the traditional route.
3. There are various levels of Autism ranging anywhere from slight to severe. What is Nicholas’ level of Autism and which characteristics you feel distinguish the levels of severity.
Nicholas is considered high-functioning meaning he has language; he is an avid reader but lacks comprehension; he writes well; he’s able to complete simple math; he is ridiculously affectionate; he is able to complete daily tasks like bathroom tasks, getting himself dressed, and he does not have a problem picking up after himself; and his eye contact is strong. However, he is unable to hold a conversation… he can answer simple directives and WH questions, but maintaining dialogue is still difficult for him. He also doesn’t pick up on social cues.
4. Studies show that on average, minority children are diagnosed up to two years later than white children. What was the time line for Nicholas’ diagnosis and did you experience similar difficulties?
Oh, I just love HOT topics. I experienced A LOT of difficulty when it came to getting him evaluated, not for autism, but for speech since that was my major concern. I’ll admit, had we stayed in Rhode Island, where he was born, his pediatrician at the time, would’ve had him evaluated at 15 months. She, too, was concerned that he wasn’t saying a whole lot. The moment we left RI, getting a doctor to listen to me was reminiscent of a caveman trying to get a thorn out of a woolly mammoth’s hoof. Nicholas was finally evaluated 3 weeks before his 4th birthday. 15 months to 4 years. Do the math; there was a lot of time lost. I’ve since learned to let the anger go.
5. Has your insurance coverage ever posed any challenges or obstacles with your child’s treatment and early intervention services? Also which provider do you believe has the best coverage for Autistic children?
I’ve never had a problem with health insurance. There was only a short time when I paid for his speech therapy; I was with Blue Cross Blue Shield of CA at the time. However, he’s been on Medicaid every since, and I haven’t paid out-of-pocket since. However, not all children are as fortunate. They are often denied by Medicaid for not being “autistic enough”. What this means is more and more children are out there, in desperate need of services, and due to lack of resources or household funding, they’re not receiving it.
6. What tips can you give parents of Autistic children on how to acquire or improve upon their Autie Angel’s communication skills from the privacy of their own home?
Autie Angels… that’s cute. Parents should stop and observe their children. Find out what they like then encourage play through that activity. Nicholas loves trains, so we get him to talk to us by asking questions about the engines in his calendar or on the pages of his new magazine. Nicholas also loves music, and Bob Marley has played an integral part in the development of his recent spontaneous and unscripted speech. Learning is supposed to be fun, so make a game out of daily tasks. Make up your own silly songs, and just have a good time.
7. Reflect on a time during your motherhood journey with Nicholas that has been difficult and how you overcame it.
I harbored a lot of resentment when it dawned on my that I was going to be a single parent. Here I was thinking I was “in love”, but the feelings weren’t being reciprocated. I began smoking again and my drinking was no longer “social”; my recycling bin filled up twice as fast as my trash bin. I was angry at the world, but not really angry for being a parent. Partly because I was old enough to “prevent” that moment in time from happening, but I opted against it. I discovered early on that I was repeating parental habits from my childhood when it came to how I reacted to situations. So, I embarked on spiritual journey to help me break that cycle. It has been an uphill climb, but I know it’s pain I need to release. Let’s just say, I am a work in progress…
8. In what ways has Nicholas’ condition affected your marriage (if at all) and how were you able to triumph?
Autism wasn’t the catalyst that ended my relationship with Nicholas’s father. That relationship ended because one of us did the right thing for all involved while the other did only right by them. I am newly married. The bond between Nicholas and my husband is very strong. You’d never know they weren’t related.
9. The gluten and casein free (GFCF) diet seems to be the most popular specialized diet for Autistic children. Is this applicable in your home for Nicholas? If not, what is your opinion on the effectiveness of “GFCF diets”? If so, how do you suggest parents start their children on the regimen?
We tried the GFCF for 3 months with zero change in behavior (which was never a problem) and speech (no marked improvement). Not every therapy works for every person. Parents should seek medical advice before they make any radical changes to their child’s diet. I also only offer feedback for any therapies or diets that I’ve tried. My stance is if you’ve tried everything and nothing’s changed, perhaps it’s time for a lifestyle change. I am often extremely surprised when I learn that children on the spectrum are still consuming processed food and drinks. Whenever parents cry out over toxic overload from vaccines, they should also take their food choices into consideration.
10. Tell us what we can expect in the future from the author Adonya Wong.
Oprah… Ellen… Larry King Live! The sky is truly the limit. I don’t have any sneak peeks for you, but I’m looking for my next book to come out in the spring of next year.
Book purchasing info for:
“In My Mind The World Through the Eyes of Autism”
by Adonya Wong
““In my mind, I see many colors, bright like a rainbow, shooting about like comets in a night sky.”
Take a closer look… What do you see?
In My Mind explores the inner world of an autistic child – the world that no one else can see.
From exciting adventures to silly games and conversations with friends, look closely and see how a child with autism sees the world…and how the world sees him. “
28 pages - $9.99 (Tate Publishing, paperback) includes audio version
ISBN - 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN - 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
Available for purchase online at:
Amazon.com, Books-A-Million.com, Borders.com, Target.com, Tate Publishing, and at a bookstore near you!
Adonya’s Full Book Tour Itinerary:
Monday, January 19: Host: Bonnie Sayers, Autism Family Adventures
Tuesday, January 20: Host: Matt Gilbert, Doctorious.org
Wednesday, January 21: Host: MaryTara Wurmser, The Bon Bon Gazette
Thursday, January 22: Host: Katrina Shanks, The Queen’s Pen
Friday, January 23: Host: Sunshine Boatright, Rawtism
Saturday, January 24: Host: Andrea S., My Autism Insights
Sunday, January 25: Host: Lori Guthrie, Rainbow Mum Forum
Monday, January 26: Host: Tim Welsh, Tanner’s Dad’s Blog
Tuesday, January 27: Host: Kari Wolfe, Imperfect Clarity
Wednesday, January 28: Host: Tammy Lessick, Autism Learning Felt
Thursday, January 29: Host: Adonya Wong, Healing… Through the Eyes of Autism
Other Resources for Adonya Wong:
Autismhangout.com Interview
MySpace Page
www.throughtheeyesofautism.com
Twitter Page
Amazon Profile
Youtube Page
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Kiwi
January 22, 2009 at 1:51 pm
“However, not all children are as fortunate. They are often denied by Medicaid for not being “autistic enough”. What this means is more and more children are out there, in desperate need of services, and due to lack of resources or household funding, they’re not receiving it.”
That is heartbreaking and frustrating that there are children in need of care who cant get it because of not being autistic enough. I do pray that there is more attention brought to this cause as well as many others for children. All children deserve to be taken care of.
Adonya Wong
January 22, 2009 at 2:01 pm
I agree, Kiwi. It is very heartbreaking to hear or read of children being denied.
I am hopeful that President Obama will keep to his campaign promises by providing Americans with disabilities “with the educational opportunities they need to succeed”, by ending “discrimination and promoting equal opportunity”, by “increasing the employment rate”, by supporting “independent, community-based living”, and by fully funding the Combat Autism Act of 2006 and Federal Autism Research Initiatives.
This is what I hope our new administration will do for our community.
Thanks for stopping by!
TheYoungMother
January 23, 2009 at 9:25 am
“I am often extremely surprised when I learn that children on the spectrum are still consuming processed food and drinks. Whenever parents cry out over toxic overload from vaccines, they should also take their food choices into consideration.”
This is very true. I think many parents would be surprised as to how many toxins we ingest from daily items that could easily be removed from the household. Be it Cosmetics, Household Cleaners, Foods…. All of these items should be looked at carefully. Especially when we have little ones in the home. Their development is crucial, and removing these exposures should be top priority.
God bless,
TheYoungMother
Adonya Wong
January 24, 2009 at 3:19 am
I couldn’t agree with you more, TheYoungMother. Parents really need to pay closer attention to everything they keep in their homes.
Not all of us are in a financial position where we can afford to build eco-friendly homes which is why we need to make greener choices.
We need to do better and opt for the greener options whenever we find we have a little extra pocket change.
We need to stop stocking up on the junk, and start investing in a healthier future for our children.
Thanks so much for stopping by…
And Ms. QueenUnique… thank you for being a gracious and supportive host of my little virtual book tour. I really appreciate your friendship!
DAY 5: Raw Life
The book that should be in EVERY home! :D
Shortly after signing up for Twitter I had a follower named Adonya Wong. I checked her out, saw she was also the parent of a child with Autism Spectrum Disorder and thought "Sure, she'll be a great one to follow!" Little did I know that in a few short months, she would not only become one of my favorite people, but that I would be one of the lucky hosts for her Virtual Book Tour.
Now, for those of you that haven't heard of "In My Mind", let me just tell you, GET THAT BOOK! I'm going to tell you why, since I don't want you to think I'm yelling at you for nothing. ;) This book, in it's short and sweet, but right-to-the-point-of-it-all manner, is in my mind THE book that could forever change the way everyone looks not just at our children with Autism Spectrum Disorder, but ALL children in general, and especially those with special needs. It could be THE book that takes us from getting the glares of "what's wrong with your kid" or "she must be a God-awful mother" to the much better, "I want to know what kind of party that kid has going on in his head"! This ONE book, in my humble opinion, could be THE book that turns it all around not just for our kids, but for society in general. And YES, I truly believe this, with every fiber of my being and every beat of my heart.
I had the chance to do a little Q & A session with Adonya for this tour. What follows are my questions, and her answers. And the best part, you can post YOUR questions in the comment section and she'll come back and answer those as well! (How cool is that? :D
Q: What in your journey of mothering Nicholas inspired you to write this book?
A:I am often asked this question, and considering the fact that I didn't have any plans to ever become a writer, my answer may come across as flim flam. Nicholas, like me, is very animated, so story "ideas" are always available. However, this particular story simply "came to me" without a forethought from me.
Q: How has writing this book opened you up more fully to how things are in his day-to-day world?
A: I find that I am more "aware" of how he "may see" his environment. I am not so quick to react to situations anymore; I now make a point of stepping back and seeing things through his eyes.
Q: How was the process of acquiring a publisher?
A: I know I shouldn't really say this, but it was actually quite easy. I didn't take the traditional path of pursuing an editor who would then introduce me to a literary agent who would then introduce my work to a publisher. That just didn't feel like the right choice for me at this time.
Q: Why go with a publisher? Why not self-publish?
A: I did consider self-publishing, but this was my first time out the gate, and I didn't want to leave anything to chance. However, my publisher is not considered a traditional publisher in the sense that an author receives a royalty check when a book contract is offered. Tate extended contracts to only 3.5% of the manuscripts it receives in '07. There is also an "author investment" that truly affords the author luxuries not otherwise received from other publishers, traditional or not. My book is available in paperback, ebook and audio format. In addition, I retain all rights to my work. Not a lot of publishers offer as much as Tate.
Q: What are the activities that you and Nicholas enjoy that makes the autism seem secondary, or like a dream?
A: It's really funny how I don't "see" the autism in everything we do. I only "notice" it if we're out and about, and he becomes overstimulated. Other than that, he really is your "typical" soon-to-be 8 year old boy who's critical thinking skills (can also be read as discovering ways to py Ische out mom) at on par with kids his age.
Q: I'm asking this one because it's the one I always get asked, and I know my answer, but I like to see other's answers as well. If you could make the autism go away, would you?
A: There was a time when I would have answered with a resounding YES, but those days are behind me. Thankfully. I've since come to understand that if I were to ever rid my life of autism, I would no longer "know" who he was. It is his "quirks" that really make him the ridiculously loving, affectionate, funny, and smart boy that I know... and deeply love.
Thanks, Adonya, for stopping by. Adonya's next stop will be My Autism Insights.
To learn more about her book, In My Mind, and living with autism, please visit her at www.throughtheeyesofautism.com and www.throughtheeyesofautism.wordpress.com!
Adonya's book is available at Amazon.com, Borders.com, Target.com, as well as a bookstore near you!
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism Foundation)
(http://www.autismtulsa.org)
Posted by Sunshine at Friday, January 23, 2009
24 comments:
Apasara said...
A virtual book tour is awesome! Thank you for sharing Adonya with us, Sunshine. Adonya, thank you for writing this book and answering questions. The way you both share is not just helping kids and their parents but all of us. We are, afterall, a village. Love! :)
Jennifer said...
Thank you for sharing your lives and the book tour with us. I am interested in this book. I have a 12yo who has ADHD. She wakes up in a new world every day and has to be reminded of so many things. There is definitely a party going on in her head. Like you, we have to take a step back and observe the process. She is so intelligent and we are in awe of her abilities. Bless you and your families.
Sunshine said...
Thanks Apasara and Jennifer! :D It was definitely my pleasure doing this! :D
If ya'll or anyone else have questions for Adonya, please make sure to leave them in the comments section! :D Thanks! :D
AdonyaWong said...
Hi Ladies!
Sorry for my delayed response!
Thanks so much for stopping by!
I agree with you 100%, Apasara. We are definitely a village, and I feel that it is our responsibility to not only help one another, but to educate those living among us but not really living among us. If you know what I mean. ;)
Jennifer,
That is so awesome that you recognize there's a party going on inside your daughter's wonderful mind! She sounds lovely, and you sound like a wonderful mom.
Sunshine,
You rock! This post still makes me teary eyed. Thanks again for being a host! I am eternally grateful!
Adonya
Adonya Wong
Author | Autism Blogger | Twitterer
Rawket Food said...
Thank you so much for this book Adonya! I am interested in reading it and passing one on to a friend of mine whose son is severly autistic. My son has ADHD and possibly ODD. With raw food he is better...but I wish I could get into his little mind! My son is so intelligent and people say the same thing...but so many 'normal' things are so difficult like sitting still or being told no. Bless you for writing this and Sunshine..thanks for the interview!
AdonyaWong said...
I just love all the raw foodie nicknames... Rawket Food (too awesome)!
Thanks so much for your interest in my little book; I wrote it for our children, so I hope you and your friend enjoy it.
Now, lil Ms. Sunshine stated she was confused by what I said when I responded to Apasara. Allow me to explain... {wink} As much as I hate to, I will assume it was this statement that did her in, "... educate those living among us but not really living among us." {teehee}
What I meant was we need to ensure that the people who do not live with autism on a daily basis are properly educated; we need to do our best to squelch the negativity by not participating in flaming wars and rise above the hatred, so our children will know how to properly fend for themselves.
Was that it, Sunshine? :D
Sunshine said...
No Adonya! ;) I meant I was confused about the Twitter stuff you were talking about on Twitter! ;) Sorry for the confusion! But it's cool that you clarified anyway, in case anyone else was confused! :D
Core Foundations said...
Hey, chica!
Just so you know, my head is splitting and it's killing me to formulate a coherent thought. So, I just wrote in my blog and am sending people this way. (The more the merrier, right?)
Sunshine said...
CoreFoundations, not a problem chica! :D I hope you feel better soon! :) And yes, spreading the word is WONDERFUL, so thank you for that! :D
AdonyaWong said...
Hey there, CoreFoundations!
Thanks so much for spreading the love! It is much appreciated! :D
Adonya
Apasara said...
Q: Have either of you read "Thinking in Pictures?" Did it give you any insight to your own experiences with your kids if you did? Though I am ADD I felt a kinship with some of her feelings/thoughts. Just wonderin'. Thanks Ladies!
Sunshine said...
I got the book, and started reading it, but haven't finished it yet. It gave me a bit of insight, but my son is more of an auditory kid than pictures as for where/how he learns, and where his strengths lie. However, I LOVE reading Temple's words and listening to her lectures. She is SUCH a boon in helping me to understand numerous things about my son, which enable me to better understand how things are for him, and how I can help him live his life to the fullest. Because isn't that what it's really all about? ;)
AdonyaWong said...
I, too, am a "fan" of dr. Grandin's work.
Nicholas is very much a visual learner; I swear he's always drawing something... and he's pretty good to boot.
Although, I have not read Thinking In Pictures, I have listened to several of Dr. Grandin's lectures, and I've found them all very enlightening.
Apasara said...
Living life to the fullest..absolutely! It's so wonderful how much you understand your kids so you can guide them. YOu let your kids bloom. I so related to Temple. I think in pictures and movies. (I constantly hear music as well.) Reading her book was so insightful. I appreciate how much her sharing helps others. Thanks for answering my question!
Apasara said...
Q: Do you think reading this book even if your life is not touch by autism (that you know of) would be helpful to parents, teachers, humans....?
Sunshine said...
Apasara, I do. That's why I gave this post the title that I did. There is a level of compassion and consciousness in this book that is brought in a non-blaming, non-finger pointing way, that can benefit not just those touched by autism, but those touched by life, period.
But that's just my opinion. I think others should get the book, and then form their own. :) I don't think I'm off the mark in my assessment though! ;)
AdonyaWong said...
I believe Thinking in Pictures should be required reading, in addition to Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew as well as, ummm, In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism. {wink}
Each book has its own unique way of "explaining" autism.
What books have helped you better understand your child?
Sharing is caring. :)
lou said...
A virtual book tour is awesome! ..Thanks to sunshine for recommending it on ;o) xxx Love Lowanna
AdonyaWong said...
Thanks again, Sunshine, for hosting this tour stop.
I had a blast getting to know your friends and talking about autism.
We should do this again sometime... but I promise not too soon! ;)
AdonyaWong said...
P.S. Although, no one qualified for the giveaway, I am going to be doing another drawing & awarding 2 lucky readers an autographed copy of my book.
Good luck! :D
AdonyaWong said...
Hi Lou.
Welcome to the tour! I hope you enjoy the book!
Please stop back (once you've read it), and let us know what you thought of it. :)
Sunshine said...
Adonya,
Thanks for letting me be a part of the tour! :D Anytime girl, anytime! :D
Tina said...
Thank yo so much for sharing this! Although my children has yet to be diagnosed with autism or any other disorders I still think it is important for parents to have this knowledge if for no other reason than to teach their own children how to be compassionate people.
God Bless.
MHM
madhattermom.com
Sunshine said...
Thank you so much! :D
I really do think everyone should get this book. There are some adults who could even learn some compassion from this book as well. ;) (Not saying you, just society in general.)
DAY 6: My Autism Insights
In My Mind - Virtual Book Tour
Published by Autism Insights at 12:01 am under Adonya Wong, Asperger's, In My Mind, autism, biomedical interventions, blogs, books, guest posts Edit This
Adonya Wong
As promised, today is the big day! Adonya Wong, author of In My Mind and also of the blog Healing…Through the Eyes of Autism , joins us to share some experiences with her son Nicholas, her feelings on inspiration, and her thoughts about her book, which sheds light on autism and the way Nicholas may see the world.
Adonya’s had a diverse professional background, and started writing in her youth. In My Mind is her first publication, just released earlier this month. Her intention is to raise autism awareness and tolerance for those with differences. She currently home-schools Nicholas in Oklahoma, and is donating a portion of her book’s proceeds to the Autism Center of Tulsa.
Without further ado…
Describe a “typical” day with Nicholas?
I am thankful that we do not have typical days. However, we do have some days where it seems like I’m in a forever tailspin of déjà vu.
There isn’t a whole lot of “structure” in our lives. I know… it seems as if everywhere you read, folks are telling you that our children “crave structure and routine”.
During my early homeschooling days, I learned that it was the structure and routine that frustrated Nicholas most. Since incorporating more of an unschooling approach, life has been very relaxed.
For the most part, we spend our days traveling the information super highway or engaging in a favorite board game or reading stories or drawing or whatever HRH (aka His Royal Hiney) feels like doing.
Life is good!
Have you attempted any biomedical intervention? If so, which one(s) and what was the outcome?
When Nicholas was in kindergarten, I put him on the GFCF diet; he was on it for 3 months. I didn’t notice a single change in anything he did or said. His baby tooth was also tested for toxins by the Autism/Asperger’s Research Center at Arizona State University, and the results were very interested. He wasn’t overloaded in any way, so I didn’t bother trying anything else after I reviewed the results.
We’re pretty organic and holistic now, and we no longer eat junky foods or drink junky stuff. I also no longer clean my house or launder our clothes with toxic chemicals; I use vinegar & water with a touch of essential oils to clean my house and natural washing soda & Borax to launder our clothes).
I’m doing my best at keeping his environment as toxic-free as I can.
Your husband is Nicholas’s stepfather, was the transition difficult for Nicholas? How has their relationship grown over time?
Nicholas is very intuitive which makes him a pretty good judge of character. If he doesn’t like the vibes you’re emitting, he won’t have anything to do with you, or he’ll shy away from you.
During our courtship, I told my husband that if Nicholas didn’t take to him, there wasn’t going to be a “he just has to get to know me” phase. Fortunately for him, Nicholas greeted him with a hug. {wink}
Their relationship has since grown into one of great strength and love. If you didn’t know them, you would naturally “assume” they were biological father and son.
Are you easily inspired to write? If not, what do you do to keep the writing fires burning?
Not really. My past writings have come from great love for the recipient. What I mean is I don’t write unless I have deep feelings for my muse which is why it should come as no great surprise that I wrote In My Mind.
Nicholas is such a joy; he inspires me every day.
Is In My Mind the beginning of a series or theme? If not, do you foresee chapter books in your writing future?
I see In My Mind as the pilot for other stories written about autism; there’s definitely a theme. I’m not sure at this time if I’ll transition to chapter books. My imagination is vivid and child-like, and me likey pictures too much. {giggling} Picture books are such a joy. Given the subject matter of my work, I’m going to always want to educate children about autism while these children are still very young (K-4). I want to teach them about “differences” and about the importance of patience, compassion, and tolerance before they’re taught how to judge others.
The tour doesn’t end here! Please follow Adonya to her next stop: the Rainbow Mum Forum. Don’t miss out!
Thanks for joining us, and thanks so much to Adonya for sharing this wonderful book with the world!
6 Responses to “In My Mind - Virtual Book Tour”
Wonderful host, super guest, insightful interview.
Best wishes
Thank you for sharing this! Working on making my home as toxic free as possible. It’s very hard for someone like me(addicted to pine sol). But with a son and boyfriend who are very sensitive to smells and chemicals, it’s time to make the change.
Great interview, I look forward to more.
- # ArieWijayaon 24 Jan 2009 at 2:51 pm edit this
awesome blog you have…..Today i have post about :
The Transporters help Autism..?
it will help alot your problem, by the way keep posting, and i will come back again, Drop done
- # Adonya Wongon 24 Jan 2009 at 4:29 pm edit this
Maddy!
One of my fave bloggers!
Thanks for stopping by!
Nipsy,
I, too, used to love Pine Sol, and Tilex, and Comet, and anything else toxic., but I’ve since learned that it’s those very toxins that are negatively impacting my family. So, I did away with them, and I don’t miss them. Okay… I do miss bleach. Still haven’t found that magic ‘eco’ pill that’ll get my whites… white.
So glad you’re going to start your green journey! Wishing you luck!
ArieWijaya,
Thanks for stopping by!
I’m wanting to know why I didn’t get a cool pic of Adonya for my leg of the tour?
I LOVE the last question, & it’s answer. If you do continue with a series, will there be additional virtual book tours? This one’s been pretty cool thus far!
- # Adonya Wong on 25 Jan 2009 at 12:10 am edit this
Thank you so much, Andrea, for participating in my lil’ virtual book tour. I had a wonderful time today!
DAY 7: Rainbow Mum Forum
Rainbow Mum
Private Forums => Adonya Wong visited on the 25th! Read great discussion. => Topic started by: L.A. Guthrie on January 18, 2009, 09:53:10 PM
Title: Thank you Adonya! We've enjoyed visiting with you today! So far here's a few we've come up with. You may also post on your own questions under this thread. 1) You have a very positive spin on how the boy in your book views the world? Is this from your own experience with your son? 2) If you could get one message across to everyone, what would you want to say regarding children with autism and the parents who love them. 3) Have you found that the parents/moms you meet are as postive as yourself? How do you find the motivation to keep going and not just do the bare minimum] Title: Re: Questions for Adonya. Please chime in. Hurry! Just a few days left! If you could take the challenges of ASD away and keep the personality of your boy, would you? (I realize this is an extremely personal question and I do not AT ALL expect a response! I just found it an interesting question to pose.) What's your favorite aspect of your son's personality? In talking w/ others who may be unaware of or unaffected by ASD's, what is your most challenging issue to address? Title: Re: Questions for Adonya. Please chime in. Hurry! Just a few days left! It's funny but I probably would love to keep his strong tempered personality. Besides his ASD challenges, I have a typical little Capricorn living in my home. When he says I am going through that wall he is going through that wall. When he decided that he was going to learn to ride bike without training wheels he did it. But it wasnt enough for him to learn to ridehis bike, he brought it up a notch, and he learned to ride his 9 year old sister's bike too. He now does tricks on the bike too. Nothing stops him. And I think that is amazing. His literal sense of the word cracks me up. Part of his ASD is that he cant control his impulses. So if he is angry his first reaction is to bite to get his point across. I constantly fight with him for it. But he respects his teachers and caregivers. So during the christmas school break I told him, you cannot bite and Ms. D told you so, and he very literally said, "Did not say that to me today". (Obviously he had not seen her in over a week). And I said she said it to you the other day. To him the other day, doesnt exists. So he says, she did not say it yesterday either. And he looks at me with a face that says (You are crazy, lady). If I could remove the ASD, I would keep my beautiful boy the same. My biggest challenge is dealing with the sudden anger outbursts, and the difficulty he faces when he is overly stimulated by those around him. Other than that Life would never be boring. Title: Re: Questions for Adonya. Please chime in. Hurry! Just a few days left! Hey ladies! Fantastic questions... look for my answers on Saturday the 25th! Make sure to stop by all stops of the tour to qualify for my groovy giveaway! "One lucky reader will win a beautiful gift basket containing an autographed copy of In My Mind, a copy of Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wish You Knew by Ellen Notbohm, packages of Enjoy Life™ and Namaste Foods™ goodies, an eco-friendly cleaning starter kit (Whole Foods® 365™ brand), and (1) $50 Amazon.com gift card!! This prize is valued at $200!!! **Simply comment about your relationship with autism, what you are doing to raise awareness, and how In My Mind has touched your life. Be sure to visit all of her stops to qualify for this amazing prize!**" Title: Re: Questions for Adonya. Please chime in. Hurry! Just a few days left! I was wondering what prompted you to write this book. Was it something you'd thought about for a while or did you just get a little insight on something and decide- it's time. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Another excellent question, Lori, and one you'll have to wait to get the answer too. ;) P.S. I realize not everyone owns a copy of In My Mind, so don't let that stop you from commenting and upping your chances of winning the giveaway! :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hey Adonya, Is there a site where they can get a description of In My Mind Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Amazon.com offers a sneak peek... ;D http://www.amazon.com/My-Mind-Adonya-Wong/dp/1606966014/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1231691458&sr=1-1 (http://www.amazon.com/My-Mind-Adonya-Wong/dp/1606966014/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1231691458&sr=1-1) Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hi, Adonya! I was wondering how your child's diagnosis has affected your life. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Fantastic question, Cammigirl! Looking forward to tomorrow when I can post my answers and chat more with you lovely mamas! :D WOOT! WOOT! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hi Adonya! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Real zingers! Working on the answers to them right now... I can't wait to chat with you all live on Sunday! WOOT! WOOT! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! P.S. Looks like we had some late visitors to my previous tour stops, so the giveaway is on like Donkey Kong! Make sure to stop by autismfamiily.blogspot.com (http://autismfamiily.blogspot.com), www.doctorious.org (http://www.doctorious.org), www.bonbongazette.com (http://www.bonbongazette.com), queenunique.wordpress.com (http://queenunique.wordpress.com), rawlife.blogspot.com (http://rawlife.blogspot.com) and autisminsights.today.com (http://autisminsights.today.com) and leave some comment love. ;) Visiting each stop is the only way to qualify for this wicked GROOVUS prize! WOOT WOOT! ;D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Good morning Adonya!! I just wanted to drop by and say THANK YOU for all you do for the Autism Community!! You are a treasure! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Just wanted to correct and say that Adonya stops here tomorrow Sunday. Today she's on autisminsights.today.com Stop by and say hi! Its a neat blog. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Adonya: Matt (AS-11) had a question. I'm sorry. I didn't even think to ask him. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Is it just me or is today the 24th, not the 25th?? ;D Tell the gang to head over to autisminsights.today.com (http://autisminsights.today.com) and show some comment love. I'll be hangin' out with y'all on Sunday! I know... I, too, was thinkin' I was here today! ;) Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Quote from: L.A. Guthrie on January 24, 2009, 09:11:41 AM Adonya: Matt (AS-11) had a question. I'm sorry. I didn't even think to ask him. He said he was wanting to know if you or your son drew the pictures? Thanks, Matt (typed by mom) Excellent question, Sir Matt... but you'll have to come back tomorrow to see my answer. ;) Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Adonya, Where in the world did I come up with today being 25th! Sending gang over to say hi to you guys today! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Don't forget to stop by autisminsights.today.com for Saturday's stop :) Click button above to follow all the stops on this Globe Trotting greatness!!! Join us here tomorrow as Adonya answers our questions and responds to comments. Thank you to all you wonderful mums and dads who've participated. Makes me so proud to be part of this community! These questions are great! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Adonya, I have a couple more questions that came to me by direct email. Posting them now. Wasn't sure best way to post them, so I hope this is okay :) 1. Do you think you'll ever write a book for older children or teens on the spectrum? Your book is too sweet. Has your new found fame opened any doors that has helped your son? AlwaysL8Mom 2. No question just comment. I've not read book but I like your attitude and honesty that i've learned by reading blogs and Twitters. Michelle 3. How do you turn off your mind for quiet time? Scrapbooking is my creative outlet. I'm a mom to 4 kids and 2 on spectrum HF. I want to turn off blogs and emails sometime. Are you able to do so? LissyG 4. I am thinking of ordering book for my 9 year old daughter. She is HF, but I am afraid it might be too young. Thoughts? Jenna C. 5. What books do you like to read to Nicholas *other than yours of course* ;) Does he realize he's the star of your book? ChocoNut 6. Do you have any plans for an in person book tour at any point? Like your style and posts and would enjoy hearing you speak or do workshop. Im in Ok, but not near tulsa- about 2 hours out. GinnysMama 7. I just learned what a Virtual Tour is for the first time on Twitter. Have you met any of your hostess/hosts IRL? Any fans IRL yet? Alicia Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! WOOT! WOOT! I'm finally here! YAY!!!!!!!!!!! Here are the answers to the questions I've been asked up to this point. ;D L.A. Guthrie asked, "You have a very positive spin on how the boy in your book views the world. Is this from your own experience with your son?" One thing people immediately notice about Nicholas is his upbeat, cheerful disposition. This is a little boy who doesn’t tell me when I have stinky breath or… feet. It is rare to not see him smiling or laughing or having a good time. He does see good in everything. Perhaps, it’s childhood innocence or perhaps, it’s the autism. I really can’t say. All I know is he is very positive… something this world needs more of. Her second question was "If you could get one message across to everyone, what would you want to say regarding children with autism and the parents who love them?" I’d tell them that autism isn’t contagious; that our children have much to say even if they’re considered nonverbal; that we are not parasites or lazy parents with nothing better to do then to overcompensate for our children’s’ “deficiencies”; that our children are not brats or morons with a “fake diagnosis”; that we need society to show more compassion and tolerance for this generation, for one day, they will be adults… still living among them who are not going to take being “ignored” or “insulted” lightly. One day, these very children will be old enough to not only fend for themselves but to let themselves be heard using much louder voices. {wink} She also asked these zingers, "Have you found that the parents/moms you meet are as positive as yourself? How do you find the motivation to keep going and not just do the bare minimum. I was wondering what prompted you to write this book. Was it something you'd thought about for a while or did you just get a little insight on something and decide- it's time." Every now and then, I’ll meet a parent who sees autism as a death sentence, the end of the world. I also meet parents who believe theirs is only one cause, and one cause only, for their child’s autism and any other possibility is preposterous. Then, I have those days when I meet nothing but smiling faces. Parents who have embraced the diagnosis, and see it as a means to enhance their own personal growth. Parents who don’t blame/point fingers, but who advocate through positive education and activism. Parents who see autism as a means to raise compassion and tolerance, not just for autism, but for all things considered “not the norm”. I mentioned this on other stops... but I never in my life thought I would be a published author because this was not a path I thought I would ever take. I mean, sure I liked to occasionally write poems and short stories, but to get something published? No way! It was actually my fiance, now my husband, he made the suggestion that I should "write children's stories" while he was passing through the living room, one late afternoon on October 25th, 2007. Little did he know that that little whisper from above would inspire me to type In My Mind in a 5 minute flurry. He also didn't know that the Divine power working through him would also inspire me to type 12... in the same week! I've only been inspired to write 2 stories since that wild week in 2007, and both have received praise from my publisher. So, it looks like we'll be doing this tour thang again next year... only for a different book. ;D Justthatgirl asked, "If you could take the challenges of ASD away and keep the personality of your boy, would you?" Actually… I LOVE this question, and I don’t think there’s anything personal about it. It’s definitely one of those questions you can’t answer enough. :) When Nicholas was first diagnosed, my answer would have been “Absolutely. Get rid of the autism!” Yet, four years later, I’m singing a different tune. I don’t know if there is anything out there that removes the “challenges” and retains the personality. Although, I’m sure folks are working/researching this potential “cure” as I type this. However, my “challenges” may be considered minimal compared to other parents, and I can only think of one thing that I would “remove”. Although, Nicholas is verbal, he doesn’t speak in full dialogue. He definitely knows how to get his message across, but oftentimes, it is not in properly structured sentences. If I could open the gateway that would allow us to communicate this way without the need for speech therapy, I would. But that’s the only thing I’d get “rid” of. Her second question was, "What's your favorite aspect of your son's personality?" Oh, dear, I only get to pick one? Darn! Hmmmm, let’s see. ;) I think it would be his ability to easily adapt to new situations and people. He takes everything in stride with minimal reaction which I think is pretty awesome. She also asked, "In talking w/ others who may be unaware of or unaffected by ASD's, what is your most challenging issue to address?" Given the fact that autism has been splattered (thankfully) all over the media for the last 2 years, I am sometimes surprised to discover that folks don’t know anything about it. However, they are usually curious about my stance on vaccines and their contribution to autism and/or whether or not I believe autism is an epidemic or just a case of too many misdiagnoses. Cammigirl asked, "I was wondering how your child's diagnosis has affected your life." Autism has truly been the best thing that’s happened to me. However, it took me a couple of years before I came to terms of just what autism meant… to me. My perceptions have been dramatically altered since the day I learned of Nicholas’s diagnosis. Like my biological family, I didn’t immediately “accept” the diagnosis. Like so many, I made the “mistake” of jumping online and was slapped in the face with over a million sites to visit (I’m sure there are more out there today). What I did find on autism didn’t seem promising at all. What I mean is the sites I visited had descriptions of autism that seemed so “end of the world-ish” to me. The minute I stopped crying and pulled my head out of the sand was the minute I had an epiphany. I did what I suggest any newly diagnosed family should do… I sought support. Since I didn’t have my family to lean on, I looked for parent groups and organizations. One thing’s for sure, my son’s diagnosis has made me more "community-minded" because I feel as if I am in a constant mode of “wanting to help others”. For years, I kept saying I wanted to help, but never took any action. Today, I am helping, not only through my book and my blog, but through day-to-day advocating for autism through my face-to-face interactions with strangers (y’know those folks who look at you sideways whenever your child does something “odd? Yeah them.) I didn’t realize in 2005 that autism would be my… calling. ;) Chole asked, "What direction do you think your life would've taken had your son been "quote" normal? Do you feel he's given you a higher path to follow?" Oh, boy! I haven’t a clue as to what path I would be on right now had he not been diagnosed. But there is one thing I am certain of… I know I wouldn’t be as patient, tolerant, or compassionate as others, and I know I would still be very judgmental and critical of others. Now, I’m sure I’m being hard on myself, but nothing brings a person back to their senses quicker than a swift reality check in the arse. I also know that Nicholas chose me to be his mother not because I had anything to teach him, but because he had something to teach me. TylersMomma asked, "I follow you on Twitter and like your inspirational posts. My child isn't autistic but is learning disabled. His teachers aren't a fan of him. What do you think the gift or lesson in that is?" First, I’d like to thank you for your support and for following my nonsense on Twitter. ;) I am grateful you get something out of my tweets. The first thing that strikes me as being so painful is your comment that his teachers are not his fans! I can’t even fathom what he must be feeling whenever he goes to school and has to face them. I don’t see a gift in feeling underappreciated or disliked. However, I will step back and attempt to see the silver lining in all this. Sadly, situations like this can do one of two things… that can either tear you down or, like the Phoenix, strengthen you so you are able to rise from the ashes. Your son needs to find his strength… through you. Like the rest of us, I am sure you are a very doting, loving, and attentive mother who would go to the ends of the earth to fight for him. But if you’re feeling down, know that those feelings will only manifest themselves in your outer world and affect those closest to you. Does your son have any friends? If he doesn’t have anyone his age that he feels he can comfortably confide in, perhaps, there’s a local teen group he can get involved in? If you’re not already involved, you should seek out a local network for you too. You can never have too many supportive friends! :) Rebuilding his self-esteem will make him better equipped to handle negativity or unpleasant situations should he find himself, once again, faced with adversity. busymomx3 asked, "Does your son laugh a lot like I envision him?" Oh, you have no idea how much he laughs. ;D There are nights when he sleeps with my husband and me, and we are often roused from our restful slumber because he’s laughing... in his sleep! Lord, have mercy! This child even wakes up laughing! Oh, to be the fly on the wall of his beautiful mind. ;) Matt asked, “Did you or your son draw the pictures?” I wish I was that talented. My publisher provided the illustrator; his name is Benton Rudd. I showed him a picture of Nicholas and the likeness is uncanny. Nicholas, on the other hand can draw very well. Who knows… maybe someday I’ll be fortunate enough to have him illustrate one of my books. AlwaysL8Mom asked, “Do you think you'll ever write a book for older children or teens on the spectrum? Your book is too sweet. Has your new found fame opened any doors that has helped your son?" Although, I have a rather vivid and colorful imagination which makes me a very visual person, I think I’ll stick with picture books… for now, that is. I saw the word, “fame” and nearly started dancing. C’mon… you know you know the words to that fab 80s hit! ;) On a serious note, I am by no means famous. Like all of us, I am merely doing my part to raise awareness and keep a positive light shining on our beautiful community. Michelle said, “No question just comment. I've not read book but I like your attitude and honesty that I've learned by reading blogs and Twitters.” Bless you, Michelle, for paying attention to my silly tweets and blog ramblings. You must be a glutton for punishment? j/t I appreciate your support and tweetship. ;) LissyG asked, “How do you turn off your mind for quiet time? Scrapbooking is my creative outlet. I'm a mom to 4 kids and 2 on spectrum HF. I want to turn off blogs and emails sometime. Are you able to do so?” A mind is a terrible thing to waste which is why I recycled mine for a better version. ;) (bah dum bum) I began my blogging debut on September 28 (on Blogger) then decided to move to WordPress on October 7. At that time, I was posting like 2 – 3 posts a day when I found Twitter. Shortly thereafter, I kicked up Facebook activity up a few notches. Hub often teases me about interrupting my blogosphere time whenever he needs something. ;) I definitely consider myself to be an addict who’s in desperate need of a program. I found www.InnerTwitter.com which is suppose to remind me to step away from the technological madness and be mindful of the moment, but I keep missing those darn hourly chimes. :D Jenna C. asked, “I am thinking of ordering book for my 9 year old daughter. She is HF, but I am afraid it might be too young. Thoughts?” One of the endorsements I received stated, “Though the book is meant for children, it also poignantly reaches adults, inspiring them to examine their own preconceptions about people with developmental and other disabilities. The book teaches both children and adults to see the world through the eyes of others who may be different than they are, eliciting compassion, tolerance and patience from the reader.” And L.A.’s Matt seems to like it too. ;) I hope your daughter will as well. ChocoNut asked, “What books do you like to read to Nicholas *other than yours of course* Does he realize he's the star of your book?” {teehee} I don’t have anything in particular that I read to him. I think I’m a pretty good storyteller (tootin’ my own horn. WOOT!), so he just gets a kick out of whatever he hears. However, he does love most of Dr. Seuss’s work (Wacky Wednesday is still a little confusing for him. I mean, it’s wacky ;) ). We’re transitioning to chapter books, and I’m thrilled about the fact that he isn’t bothered by the lack of pictures. As for his stardom? He definitely knows the pictures are about him, but he hasn't communicated whether or not he understands the story. Some day, he will. GinnysMama asked, “Do you have any plans for an in person book tour at any point? Like your style and posts and would enjoy hearing you speak or do workshop. I’m in OK, but not near Tulsa- about 2 hours out.” Groovus, an Okie! SAH-WEET! I do have plans for adding workshops to the mix this year, and I’d also like to do some speaking engagements as well. As for a public book tour? That would be awesome! Of course, I’ll enlist Oprah and Ellen’s help in getting me get to the big leagues. ;) Alicia, asked “I just learned what a Virtual Tour is for the first time on Twitter. Have you met any of your hostess/hosts IRL? Any fans IRL yet?” I would LOVE to meet my VBT hosts one day! Actually, I would love to meet EVERYONE I’ve met online. ;D As for fans? I’d like to think of all the wonderful people who have been supporting me as friends. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hello, Adonya! I just read your answers to all of our questions and just wanted to personally thank you for doing this. You're an inspiration to me. I look forward to hearing more. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Adonya, Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hi Adonya! Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hey, hey, hey! (Fat Albert quotable ;) ) Thank you for your sweet words, ladies. I wrote this book so our children would have something to call their own. There aren't a lot of books out there that speak to them, and I'm just blessed this little story "came to me" so I could share it with the world. My Day 4 host referred to our children as "Autie Angels",, and I believe that to be true. I think our children know things that we could not fully comprehend, and I think it is for this reason that God made their brains the way She did. ;) Can you imagine if they were made to think like us... always worried about one thing or another... always stressed out about nothing... always criticizing the way they look, or don't look? My, my... God know what She was doing when she created our children. Can I get an "AMEN"??? :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Amen, Sister! Quote from: AdonyaWong on Today at 10:25:46 AM Hey, hey, hey! (Fat Albert quotable ;) ) Thank you for your sweet words, ladies. I wrote this book so our children would have something to call their own. There aren't a lot of books out there that speak to them, and I'm just blessed this little story "came to me" so I could share it with the world. My Day 4 host referred to our children as "Autie Angels",, and I believe that to be true. I think our children know things that we could not fully comprehend, and I think it is for this reason that God made their brains the way She did. ;) Can you imagine if they were made to think like us... always worried about one thing or another... always stressed out about nothing... always criticizing the way they look, or don't look? My, my... God know what She was doing when she created our children. Can I get an "AMEN"??? :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! AMEN SISTER! ;D We are blessed indeed! Quote from: Cammigirl on Today at 10:37:42 AM Amen, Sister! Quote from: AdonyaWong on Today at 10:25:46 AM Hey, hey, hey! (Fat Albert quotable ;) ) Thank you for your sweet words, ladies. I wrote this book so our children would have something to call their own. There aren't a lot of books out there that speak to them, and I'm just blessed this little story "came to me" so I could share it with the world. My Day 4 host referred to our children as "Autie Angels",, and I believe that to be true. I think our children know things that we could not fully comprehend, and I think it is for this reason that God made their brains the way She did. ;) Can you imagine if they were made to think like us... always worried about one thing or another... always stressed out about nothing... always criticizing the way they look, or don't look? My, my... God know what She was doing when she created our children. Can I get an "AMEN"??? :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! For those of you who have read In My Mind, I would love for you to share your thoughts on how you felt after reading it. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! I felt like I understood the little boy's perspective and was happy that his imagination & understanding of his world was a positive one and so happy to have had a glimpse in his world..even if for a short while:) Quote from: AdonyaWong on Today at 11:56:45 AM For those of you who have read In My Mind, I would love for you to share your thoughts on how you felt after reading it. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Thank you, Shelley, for sharing your thoughts! The picture you sent of Sarah with the book is a personal fave! :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! i haven't read the book yet, but it sounds like it is a very positive experience. I could use it! Some of the challenges with my 12 yr old Aspie now are school projects, starting them, working on them. I don't know how much of the struggles are due to him being a HF 12 yr old, or due to being an Aspie. I guess it is a little of both. I told him at 11 am specific instructions on how to start it. As of 2:00 he had done nothing. Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Hey there, ercmom! Hang in there! We all have those days when it seems like nothing is going as planned. ;) What type of project is he working on? What type of learner is he (i.e. visual, auditory, etc.)? Are you stressed about something other than his project? If so, take several minutes for yourself and do something that will allow you to regroup and clear your mind. Then you'll be better equipped to re-tackle his little project. :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! I am so proud of you! I wish I had the strength and gumption to write a book...I have so much to share and purge:P ;D Quote from: AdonyaWong on Today at 12:36:04 PM Thank you, Shelley, for sharing your thoughts! The picture you sent of Sarah with the book is a personal fave! :D Title: Re: Ask Adonya! She's stopping here on the 25th for her virtual book tour! Thanks, Shelley! :) I think the one thing that keeps anyone from writing is fear. Our children step outside of their inner "worlds" every day, so don't let anything hold you back! :D Tell your story, mama! Title: THANK YOU! I had the absolute best time visiting with everyone today and, not only talking about my life and work, but learning about you as well! Thank you, Lori, for opening your forum to me and guest visitors! Thank you for tweeting and retweeting about not only this stop but others as well. If I've said it once, I'll say it again... you are truly a gem! :D Hope to see you all at my next stop... Tanner's Dad's Blog (http://www.causecast.org/member/tanners-dad/blog_posts (http://www.causecast.org/member/tanners-dad/blog_posts))!!! Title: Thank you Adonya and for everyone who participated! I am so thrilled! Thank you Adonya and all the great friends who've stopped by today to join in discussion! |
DAY 8: Tanner’s Dad’s Blog
Welcome to Day 8 of author Adonya Wong's virtual book tour for In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism.
- Posted on 01.26.09
Welcome to Day 8 of author Adonya Wong's virtual book tour for In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism.
Adonya and I met on Twitter, and we have since become friends and very supportive of one another. When Adonya was seeking hosts for her tour, I did not hesitate to get on board.
I had the opportunity to ask her a few questions about her book, her thoughts on living with autism, and her hopes from our new administration.
"In My Mind" Book Trailer Friend of Causecast new Book About a child with Autism
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Enjoy!
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Will "In My Mind" become a
series?
I don’t foresee it becoming a series where it’s the same character in
every book. However, this isn’t the last
book I’ll publish that will be written for our children.
At what point do you think
the scales will tip in the parents favor?
I’m not quite sure I understand this
question exactly, but I’m hoping my response is what you were seeking. Taking into consideration all of the
negativity our community has seen over the past year, I am hopeful that, one
day soon, people will see that we are all simply doing what we feel is best for
our children. I am hopeful that, one day soon, people will not see those parents within our community who choose biomedical intervention as torturers but as parents who will go to the ends of the earth to help their
child(ren) and reduce any physical suffering . I am hopeful that, one day soon, people will not look at our children and have only negative things to say about them. I am hopeful that, one day soon, people will see that our children do matter, that their voices need to be heard, and that today it may be
autism, but who knows what tomorrow will bring. I say tolerance and compassion NOW, not later!
How can people help our families?
People can help by showing more compassion and tolerance. Instead of judging or pointing fingers,
perhaps, they can step back, put themselves in our shoes, and see the
situation through a clearer less judgmental mind. Life is not black and white, and things are
not always as they appear.
What do you hope to accomplish with your books?
I am hopeful that my work will change how
people “see” autism. You see "In My Mind" is a perception-based
book. As one reviewer stated, “…though
the book is meant for children, it also poignantly reaches adults, inspiring
them to examine their own preconceptions about people with developmental and
other disabilities. The book teaches both children and adults to see the world
through the eyes of others who may be different than they are, eliciting
compassion, tolerance and patience from the reader.”
What keeps you up at night?
Good one. Not much keeps me
up at night. Okay, that’s not 100% true… I do find it hard to quiet my mind
when I get caught up thinking about my next blog post or advocacy phone call to
make.
What would you like the new administration to do for us?
I would like President Obama to follow through
on his campaign promises by providing Americans with disabilities “with theeducational opportunities
they need to succeed”, byending
“discrimination and promoting equal opportunity”, by “increasing
the employment rate”, bysupporting “independent, community-based living”,
and by fully funding the Combat Autism Act of 2006 and Federal Autism Research
Initiatives.
This is what I hope our new administration will do for our community.
Thanks, Adonya, for stopping by. If you'd like to ask her a question, feel free to do so below because she'll be hanging out with us for the rest of the day.
Her next stop will be Autism Learning Felt( http://www.autismfelt.blogspot.com ), so be sure to stop by. To learn about Adonya and her book, In My Mind, please visit her at www.throughtheeyesofautism.com and www.throughtheeyesofautism.wordpress.com!
Adonya's book is available at Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Books-A-Million.com, Borders.com, Target.com, as well as a bookstore near you!
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism
Foundation) (http://www.autismtulsa.org).
DAY 9: Imperfect Clarity
Jan 27 2009
Book Tour! In My Mind: Through the Eyes of Autism by Adonya Wong
Posted by: Kari in Uncategorized
Welcome to “Imperfect Clarity,” my blog about fiction writing and my forays into being a novelist!
This has also been cross-posted at Mama Bear Knows Best, my mommy blog.
Today, I would like to welcome Adonya Wong to my meager little blog. Her book, In My Mind: Through the Eyes of Autism, has been released and I am fortunate enough to have her here with us for a few questions on her virtual book tour! Because of my daughter’s sensory issues, autism has become near and dear to my heart.
- When you learned that Nicholas was autistic, how did you and your family learn to accept that diagnosis? Is there any advice that you could give to other families who are in a similar situation?
When I learned he had autism, I was taken aback. Like most parents, I was not prepared to hear those words. I wasn’t prepared to hear that there was “something wrong with him”. That’s how I saw autism… in those early months. I saw it as a bad thing. Plus, it didn’t help matters when I told my family, and they denied the diagnosis. To them, there was nothing awry, and he just needed to be “around other kids his own age”. I’m thankful, however, for my friends. Their unwavering support has helped me so much during this journey. In addition, I’ve since changed my views about autism, and life has been happier ever since.
The best advice I can offer new families is to seek out support. You’ll quickly discover who your true friends are as well as how supportive your family is. Seek out parent groups, and if there isn’t one close by… ORGANIZE one yourself. There’s no greater feeling than being around other parents who understand your life, who want to offer useful advice, and who will not hesitate to offer a kind and supportive listening ear. Or even a shoulder for those days when you just want to cry.
- What activities do you and Nicholas both enjoy that make you two feel closer to one another?
We’re avid readers, so cuddling up to a good story is always fun. Dr. Seuss is a personal favorite and I believe we have 90% of his work. I recently added chapter books into the mix, and his reaction to them has been positive. I started him out on a story he knew all too well, Charlotte’s Web. Now, we’ve “graduated” to other equally exciting stories. We’re currently reading, The Stupendous Dodgeball Fiasco by Janice Repka. I’m careful not to read any YA to him where the language may seem a bit harsh (i.e. name calling or things like that).
We also enjoy board games. He gets a real kick out of Chutes & Ladders and Candy Land! He’s such a good sport; he gets really excited regardless of who wins!
- What wisdom can you share with inspiring writers?
When I hear someone say,” but I have nothing to write about”, I often tell them… look closely at your life. “Now, do you see? You have more than enough to write about.“ People should start with what they experience on every day. The story usually comes without prompting or too much forethought.
Writing should also never be forced. If if doesn’t come naturally… wait it out. A good story often comes in its own time.
Thank you, Adonya, for gracing us with your presence. Having read your book, I believe both the words and the images are a wonderful addition to helping both children and adults understand more about autism spectrum disorder. This understanding is lacking in parts of our society today and I am very thankful that there are people out there who can assist in that.
Readers, please feel free to leave your comments, questions and thoughts in the appropriate field below. And we have prizes! For the entire book tour, Adonya will pick:
One lucky reader will win a gift basket containing an autographed copy of my book, a copy of Ten
Things Every Child with Autism Wish You Knew, packages of Enjoy Life™ and Namaste Foods™ goodies, and an eco-friendly cleaning starter kit (Whole Foods® 365™ brand), and (1) $50 Amazon.com gift card!!. This prize will be valued at $200.
The winner will be announced 4 days after the tour ends, so check back and see if you’ve won!
Adonya’s next stop will be Autism Learning Felt (www.autismfelt.blogspot.com).
To learn about the author and her book, In My Mind, please visit her at www.throughtheeyesofautism.com and www.throughtheeyesofautism.wordpress.com!
Adonya’s book is available at Amazon.com, Borders.com, Target.com, as well as a bookstore near you!
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism
Foundation) (http://www.autismtulsa.org).
2 Responses to “Book Tour! In My Mind: Through the Eyes of Autism by Adonya Wong”
What a great interview! Adonya–could you please contact me at rainbow@velocity.net ? I’d like to discuss featuring you on my blog when you have the time!
Great blog, Kari-I will be back to visit again!
I was sitting on your personal blog… and something told me to venture over here!
Thanks for your comment, Joyce, and I’ve sent that email your way! Thanks so much for your interest!
· Lea Schizas says: January 27th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
First off I want to say KUDOS to Adonya for actually sitting down and completing her book. This is a task in itself. The cover is absolutely fantastic. Adonya, Litsa and I would be honored to host you on our blog:
http://shakingthesystem.blogspot.com/
Send us an email: autismepidemic@yahoo.com We wish you tons of success with your book.
Lea Schizas
· 
Hey Ms. Lea!
Thanks so much for stopping by, and thanks again for the kind words! I’m looking forward to connecting with you at your place one day soon!
Big thanks to Kari for hosting today’s tour stop! I really appreciate you letting me hang out here with you and your readers!
Thanks again!
DAY 10: Autism Learning Felt
Adonya Wong's Virtual Book Tour
I am so happy to have Adonya Wong stop by my blog during her blog tour. Hopefully, you have been following her tour and are already familiar with her book “In My Mind.” If not, let me tell you about it. It is a children’s book that gives you a peek at what may going on in the mind of a child with autism. I read this book and cried. It is like I was reading about my son. I highly recommend this book for parents, educators, and any professional that may need the perfect way of introducing a young child with autism to a new group of children.
I had the opportunity to ask Adonya a couple of questions and you can read them and her answers, below.:
How old is Nicholas?
7, turns 8 in March.
Does he communicate verbally or with pec symbols or gestures?
He communicates very well but not always in full dialogue. We're working on conversation, and we're forever amazed but what he puts together without the use of PECS or gestures.
Are you going to do another book soon?
I do have plans to publish more books. I'm currently with a Print-On-Demand publisher which has been good for the 1st go-round. However, I'll be seeking a traditional publisher for my subsequent books. I'd like the experience of having an agent and so forth. :)
What does your son do for fun?
Nicholas loves trains which is why our Christmas getaway was geared around all things that went choo choo.
What are his hobbies?
He loves to draw as we go through about 6 - 7 Doodle Pros a year. He also loves to sing Bob Marley songs and with passion. I've noticed a dramatic improvement in his speech since being introduced to his music. We'll be adding music and art lessons in 2009 because of his high interest in both.
What activity do the two of you do together that brings you the most joy?
I love it when the family snuggles in bed at night, and I read the latest selection. Nicholas has shown greater interest in chapter books these days which has broadened our nightly selections.
Thanks, Adonya, for stopping by. Tomorrow, she will be wrapping up the tour at her own blog, so be sure to stop by!
To learn more about Adonya and her book, In My Mind, please visit her at www.throughtheeyesofautism.com and www.throughtheeyesofautism.wordpress.com!
Adonya's book is available at Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Books-A-Million.com, Borders.com, Target.com, as well as a bookstore near you!
In My Mind: The World through the Eyes of Autism (Tate Publishing 2009)
Published: January 6, 2009
Genre: Children’s Fiction
ISBN 10: 1-60696-601-4
ISBN 13: 978-1-60696-601-3
28 Pages (full-color paperback)
$9.99 (includes audio book version)
A portion of the author’s proceeds benefit Autism Center of Tulsa (formerly Tulsa Autism Foundation) http://www.autismtulsa.org!
2 comments:
- Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Adonya. I've learned so much from your tour. Would you take all the comments and your answers to questions and put it into an ebook? I think it would make a great companion to the book.
- Hi John!
Thanks again for stopping by, and what an lovely suggestion!
Looks like I have another project to work on. :D
Adonya